[U]READ READ READ READ READ READ READ READ READ [/U] I'M A FREE MEMBER, SO IF YOU WANT TO CONTACT ME, HOTLIST ME AND THEN SEND ME A FRIEND REQUEST [B]FIRST[/B] AND WHEN YOU SEE I'VE ACCEPTED IT, [B]THEN[/B] WRITE ME. I CAN'T SEND MESSAGES UNLESS A GOLD MEMBER WRITES ME, AND I CAN'T READ YOUR MESSAGE AND REPLY UNLESS WE HAVE HOTLISTED AND FREINDED EACH OTHER FIRST. [U]THOSE ARE AFF'S RULES[/U], NOT MINE. I HAVE A LOT OF MESSAGES SENT TO ME THAT I CAN'T READ OR RESPOND TO BECAUSE THE PEOPLE THAT SENT THEM DIDN'T SEND A FRIEND REQUEST FIRST. THIS IS THE ONLY WAY FOR FREE MEMBERS TO BE ABLE TO COMMUNICATE ON AFF NOW. Thanks for viewing my profile, and I hope to hear from you as I'm a free member and can't send out any messages to members here. Hopefully you will read the following: I get messages like "Let's get together and fuck!" or "I really want to suck that big cock!" where that is all the per says, and I appreciate them, but I just delete them as the per hasn't indicated that they are either smart enough or energetic enough to give me any information that they really want to actually have that happen. If you are not motivated enough to actually put some work into writing, you might as well save your energy. Many people write saying "Send me your phone number" or "Tell me everything you have ever done sexually" with absolutely no information about themselves. It seems common that most people want the other per to divulge intimate information about themselves, while they hide behind screen names and handles. They will also ask for photos of you while saying they don't have any, or assuming that even if they do have photos, and are reckless enough to post thier face on a swingers line, that you are that reckless. It's "tit for tat" in this world, and you usually get only as good as you give. If you want to know what I'm into, then let me know what you are into. If you want to see pics, then have pics to trade. But first and foremost, we might as well see if we have at least the smallest chance of being compatible for meeting, enjoying the same things, having the same schedules, and living in the same state helps a lot. There is no use in my sending out pics of myself to someone who lives too far, the wrong hours, isn't interested in the same sexual activities, or is looking for a one time blow job in the woods. The rea very few people actually end up meeting and having sex at these sites is everyone is really brave behind a keyboard with thier hand on thier Willy, but not so brave in real time. They are willing to spend hours reading ads but not putting 10 minutes into really responding to one. If your not really serious about finding a sex partner - please move on! That said - I am a married male whose wife is not involved or interested. I am discrete in respecting her honor and feelings, and because of that, I am very selective in sexual partners - and very safe. I work in the mental health field, and am therefor very discrete. I am looking for either a bi male or couple with a bi male who are interested in a long term arrangement, or a woman who would like to feminize a man and then dominate and him. I have a married bi male friend who I have gotten together with for many years but lives farther away, and as we are both married without a place to meet except motels, a per or couple with a place could have a regular 3/4some arrangement possibly. I am 6 foot tall and about 165 pounds, trim and nicely built and fairly good looking, and very well endowed at about 8 inches. I am not looking for drama in my or another pers life, just a safe, discrete sexual partnership that will hopefully work out to be long term. My time that is free is typically weekday afternoons, although the rare weekend or evening is possible. I respect boundries and expect mine to be regarded in the same fashion. I have certain likes and dislikes and entertain others likes and dislikes with the same openess I expect mine to be entertained. It is possible to say "that's not something I'm interested in doing" without being offensive (unless your naturally offensive!). I work and live around the Kalamazoo area and west towards Paw Paw, and sadly don't get much time for traveling, being more of a private home-body type. I am a pretty good conversationalist and love to be with people who like to talk and discuss ideas but not much for small talk. If this sounds potentially like a match to you, write me back and let me know - your general living situation what hours/days work for you what type of sexual activity you are interested in general body dimensions generally where you are located in relation to Kazoo

Mi persona ideal: Good attitude, not so hung up on body type, great looks, etc. Should respect limits.