Hi everyone! solo and poly here. Was married/poly for 4 years. Currently I'm on a journey of self-discovery and working on living for myself again and learning to be happy on my own. I hope to find like minded people on here for casual and platomic encounters as well as intimate and meaningful. I'm a big advocate of building relationships off of friendships first, rather than basing them off of sexual desire or drunken encounters. I'm sober off the drink so I apologize for the inconvenience. Although I do smoke mad amounts of weed on my days off and down times. Life is what you make it, and we have the ability to be haopy, whenever we want, wherever we are. So why not always choose happiness. Life is too short to not enjoy each and every day like it's your last. I'm just hoping to find some people that feel the same and want to find some more happiness with me before it's too late.