Everyone starts by asking me, "What are you looking for?" so I'm going to TELL you what I'm looking for. If this is something that YOU are looking for too, please reach out. Otherwise, don't bother me! I want DATING AND ROMANCE. I do NOT want hookups. Empty sex does nothing for me. If you are going to leave 20 minutes after the sex is done, then I don't want any part of you! I want someone who cares about me as a person, and actually wants to spend time with me doing things out in public like normal people!!! You need to be gainfully employed and drive. I am not supporting you financially and I am not a taxi service. I don't need that from you either. I make my own money, own my own home, and drive my own car. Our relationship is to enhance each other's lives! I don't need you, and you shouldn't need me either. We are choosing to be together because we LIKE each other. Also, the sex needs to be frequent and good. I have an insatiable appetite for sex. If you are a once-a-week kind of guy and you have insecurities about me seeing other people, we aren't going to work out very well. Daily is my preference. And obviously...you have to like kissing the kitty...and I am a squirter. :-)